Presentation Myth 4: ‘41% of people are more afraid of public speaking than of dying’

Presentation Skills Myths and Realities #4

A myth made popular by the comedian, Jerry Seinfeld, when he suggested that, given this fear, the average person would rather be in the casket at a funeral than giving the eulogy.

Seinfeld was referring to a study from a 1977 ‘Book of Lists’. A team of market researchers had asked 3,000 US citizens ‘what they were most afraid of’.

Whilst ‘Speaking before a Group’ topped the list with 41%, it was simply asking what they were currently fearing at that moment. (incidentally, Heights ranked second, with Insects and Bugs joint third with Financial Problems and Deep Water).

There is no scientific evidence that Glossophobia – fear of public speaking – outweighs that of death. However, there’s no doubt that many people do get extremely nervous when asked to present. And understandably so. If something is important, it’s completely natural to be apprehensive, or excited. It should not be seen as a weakness, or as a sign of failure.

The Hollywood actor, Donald Sutherland, despite having made 120 movies, admitted: ‘I’m nervous on the first day of the set. Every time. I throw up before shooting’.

Before his first TV interview in 1978, Steve Jobs turned to the cameraman and said: ‘tell me where the restroom is – I’m ready to throw up at any moment’.

Harrison Ford described public speaking as ‘the greatest fear of my life’.

Julie Roberts and Brad Pitt both expressed similar thoughts. And Warren Buffett, one of the most successful investors in the world today, is known to have chosen courses at college which would not involve him having to speak in front of the class.

The fact is, although we’re not suggesting that you should be throwing up, it’s not only natural to be keyed up before presenting, its essential. It means you’re taking it seriously, more likely to prepare, and better the chance of success.

Nerves are often referred to as “having butterflies”. The aim is not to get rid of them, but rather to get them to fly in formation.